W. Somerset Maugham
In an earlier post, I suggested the possibility that the idiots might be right - that those who disagree with you and me could, in fact, have valid points. And I am convinced that most people do not want to hear my opinion, and they certainly do not want my advice. So, given (at least I believe this) that opinion and advice are held in low esteem, it would seem logical to focus on pure, sweet information. Information is neutral, by definition, right?
Opinion: blue skies are beautiful.
Advice: you should go outside and see that beautiful blue sky.
What if I really am wrong, dead wrong? I know that sounds totally implausible. But if I routinely reject opinion and advice, how will I know I am wrong, and adjust my plans accordingly?
It gets worse. We are discussing, my entrepreneurial friends, a common, and very serious type of mistake. None of us, not you, and certainly not I, are nearly as well-informed as we ought to be, or can be. That is because, as pointed out by Peter Senge and many others, we tend to reject perfectly valid information that does not conform to our preferred vision of the world. Check out "the ladder of inference" and see for yourself.
Diogenes of Sinope carried a lamp through the streets in the daytime and said he was looking for an honest man. That may have been a fool's errand, but it was noble and principled. I say grab a lamp and scour the world for honest critics! Hunt them down and collect them. Mount them in your office as trophies. They are rare and, like all rare things, priceless.
Of course, once we find them, we must, as they say, heed them. Oops! That can hurt. But it only hurts for a little while, I assure you. And the pain it prevents can be much worse, even deadly. I routinely urge myself and all my friends to peel away the painful layers of opinion and advice that surround perfectly good information. Let the critics rail. Then figure out why they were railing. Extract the "blue sky" from the pompous admonitions. They can prevent us from rejecting valid information simply because it is uncomfortable, because it invalidates our business strategy.
So, I ask you, what's worse, a little embarrassment, a temporary comeuppance, or a failed business?
It takes both Modesty and Moxie to welcome criticism. Do you have what it takes?


